Everyone knows that the holidays can be the most stressful time of the year. I’m no exception to that, and with the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season, I often find myself feeling the urge to capitulate to a higher power. The power of the feminine submissive. Being a submissive femdom switch, means I relish in control, and the surrender of that control placed in my hands. I love the feeling of Dominating another submissive. As a femdom switch, though, I also know the sweet bliss of handing that control over, and not being responsible for my actions, or the delicious way my clit throbs, when I answer.. to him.
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I enjoy the warmth, and the feel of a man’s strong hands against my skin. Pinning me up against the wall, or treating me like the naughty santa’s helper I’ve been, and putting me over his knee. It takes a special understanding, to handle a woman like me. The knowing look in my eye, that tells him tonight, I want to be used, punished, and fucked like a wanton whore.
Many men think they understand what it means to be a Dom, I have found only a few truly are cognizant of what that means, what it entails. And some of my favorite Dom’s to play with, are themselves, switches. This is a side of me that I do not entrust with just any guy that calls himself Master or Sir. But there is one, whose voice, commands, and demeanor, match my own. And when the roles are reversed, it is often myself, that he calls Mistress.
After a week of running to and fro, and feeling completely washed out, after putting up the tree, I heard the words that were music to my ears. “Take off your clothes, Princess. It’s time for your lesson.” I do get cranky and bratty, if I haven’t been punished in a while. And the best part? Being rewarded with Sir’s cock, once I’ve completed my lessons.
Nurturing that duality keeps me grounded. This holiday season, make sure you nurture and take care of your needs, too. There will be more from the Femdom switch, stay in touch. You can read our blogs on this site, and visit us at Enchantrix Empire.
This blog is part of the 2017 Christmas Blog Train. Stick around for the next stop, Mistress Christine.
Love and Light,
Duchess Willow
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Hello Willow,
I hope you don’t mind if as a primarily submissive who sometimes switches I give my thoughts on this.
Most of the time in power play fantasies, I like to be the submissive. It is easier for me to know what to do, because there is someone telling me what to do. I’ve never been in Second Life but a few LDW Mistresses have permitted me to try the dominant role. It is fun to explore, though it is hard for me to really be dominant – it is fun but doesn’t come naturally for me, and the calls where I am submissive are usually a lot more fun.
There is one exception, there is one Mistress where it doesn’t matter if I am sub, dominant, or vanilla – I can have a blast with her regardless. We have a special connection that allows that. But even with her I still prefer to be submissive because it is more natural to me.
One thing though that I have only tried once and it was absolutely fantastic – a two-mistress call where one Mistress was dominant and the other was submissive, not to me but to the dominant Mistress, who I was also submissive to. The actual premise was that we were a married couple that were submissive to the dominant.
That was a really really hot call.
Thank you Alice for replying, it is fun playing the submissive role, keeps me re-energized. I do understand some are not comfortable being in the dominant role, for me I enjoy experiencing both sides. A sub couple sounds like a good time. 😉