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In the virtual world, as in the real world, it can be difficult to know your place.

At least in the physical world you have some idea about how things work, and what to do to survive and thrive. From there, it’s a question of identifying what you need to be happy and content, and then acting to get the things you desire. In the virtual world, getting to where you really do know your place can take a little extra effort and time. And if you’re kinky, or submissive, finding your place has an extra layer of difficulty on top, because now you need to navigate complex social situations on top of just… finding a place to call ‘home’.

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Submissives often think they know what their place should be…

And we all know, of course, that you belong on your knees before your Mistress. In the virtual world, you can kneel for all sorts of folks, but sometimes your obeisance goes unacknowledged and undervalued. How do you know your place online, when your place seems to shift and move under your knees? The key is to decouple your “place” from any one specific person; if a person is the source of your happiness and joy, you have given that person power over you and your emotional landscape. Instead of setting a single person as your guiding light, choose a principle or ethical stance as your epicenter. Know your place as a conceptual star, rather than as a fallible person.

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Do you know your place?

For some, their place is in the pursuit of pleasure and joy. Others find their place within service to others. There are submissives who find their greatest bliss and joy in being used as a sexual toy by strangers and perverts who’s real names they’ll never know, while others seek a deeper and more personal intimacy through BDSM. Remember that what you bring to your virtual life can be the building blocks toward a fulfilling and enriching experience; but if you bring the negative baggage and attachments that plague your real life in-world with you, you will only be re-creating the failures and disappointments of your first life in your virtual life. No matter which world you’re experiencing life through, know your place.

Remember, sissies, that the 2019 Sissy Pageant is still going on, and you have until April 13 to get your entries in!